Con Mucho Cariño

Meet Sandra

Hola, I'm Sandra Barocio.

I wear many hats in this life—mother, abuela, storyteller, caretaker, advocate, and proud Mexican-American. But more than anything, I'm someone who believes our stories matter. They connect us, remind us where we come from, and help us understand one another a little better.

For more than a decade, I had the privilege of helping build an AIDS Services program through Catholic Charities of San Mateo County. What began as a small team of just two people grew into a community-wide network supported by hundreds of dedicated volunteers. Together, we walked alongside individuals and families living with HIV/AIDS, helping coordinate daily care, connect people with medical resources, offer emotional support, and, far too often, help families navigate the heartbreak of saying goodbye. It was some of the most meaningful work of my life, and it deepened my belief that every person deserves dignity, compassion, and to have their story witnessed.

Writing has always been another thread woven through my life. Whether I was filling journals, writing short stories, or submitting essays and reflections to local newspapers, I was always trying to make sense of the world through words. Poco a poco, those pages began telling a much larger story—the one I had been carrying with me all along.

We Are All Others is the culmination of those years of writing and reflection. It tells the story of my family's journey from Mexico to Texas and eventually California in search of opportunity, belonging, and a better life. It is a story of sacrifice, identity, perseverance, and love—la historia de mi familia. But my hope is that somewhere within these pages, you'll recognize pieces of your own family's journey, too.

Whether your roots stretch back generations or your family's story began somewhere else, bienvenidos. Thank you for being here. It's an honor to share this story with you.

People protesting on the street, with one person dressed in a dinosaur costume and holding a sign that reads, 'Hell This Shit Is So Bad I Had to Come Back From Extinction to Protest'. Another person is holding a sign that says, 'No Kings Since 1776'.
A smiling woman holding a chicken inside a wire cage in a garden with green leafy bushes in the background.
A smiling middle-aged woman with blonde hair wearing a colorful dress with floral embroidery and a bead necklace. She has a rainbow-colored flower hair accessory and is posing indoors with a black and white picture on the wall, a white floor lamp, and a grey couch with a pink cloth on it.
A smiling woman wearing a large straw sunhat and glasses, standing next to a man wearing a straw hat with a black band, sunglasses, and a colorful shirt with a tropical pattern, outdoors in front of a house with horizontal siding.

The wonder of my childhood memories is truly a gift from my parents.

Black and white portrait of a young girl in profile, with shoulder-length hair, wearing a patterned shirt and sweater.

Sandra Barocio

The author only 5 years old, wears her duck-patterned dress to school on a wintry day in 1957.

A vintage photograph of two young people smiling and standing close to each other on a beach, with a house and chairs in the background.

Brother and Sister

The author and Gabriel (her older brother) during one of many memorable outings.

Three people smiling for a photo, with two women on the right and an elderly man on the left, dressed casually. The man is wearing a red and white hat and glasses, while the women are wearing jewelry. The background features colorful posters and a gray wall, with some green leaves visible.

Papa, Sandra, y Mamá

The author with her father, Gabriel Barocio Garcia and her mamá, Maria de los Angeles Vasquez Posada.

A portrait of a woman with dark, wavy hair styled back, smiling softly with a dark background.

Graduation

The author’s 1970 Gonzales High School graduation picture. Notice the shoelace holding her hair, Gabriel was pleased.

“This beautiful memior tells the story of the importance of family bonds, integrity, hard work, commitment to one another and the sacrifices made in the quest for a better life.

This compelling and relevant book is a must read, and will help to foster understanding, particularly in this stage of our nation’s history.”

— Laurel R.

Watercolor illustration of a road with a red car, trees, and mountains in the background, with a sunset sky, and text that reads 'We Are All Others' and 'Todos Somos Otras' by Sandra Barocio.